Matthew Robert Driggers Havner
April 13, 1992 – August 8, 2025

Matthew Havner
Matthew’s family are deeply saddened to announce his unexpected passing on August 8, 2025.
Matthew was born to J Marvin Havner and Joanna Marie Driggers on April 13, 1992, in Seattle, Washington. He was a sweet, bright, and loving child, and a delight to his family. Matthew was overjoyed to welcome his baby sister, Megan, on April 24, 1994. They became a fun, silly, mischievous pair, as well as the very best of friends.
Matthew grew up in the Ballard Neighborhood of Seattle, graduating from Ballard High School in 2010. He joined the Ballard High School Maritime Academy and was active in the Ballard Highschool Drama Department, as a sound and lighting technician. After graduation, Matthew continued his education at Seattle Maritime Academy, graduating in 2013. He began his maritime career first as a deckhand then as an engineer with Westar Marine Services, working on tugboats up and down the Pacific coast, including Alaska. Matthew took his knowledge of marine diesel engines to Northern Lights as a test technician, where his analytical problem-solving skills excelled. These same skills served him well at Boeing, and various other companies, working on everything from airplanes to communications satellites. Matthew pursued his aptitude for engineering and innovation in his personal life; working on several inventions, some of which he patented.
Matthew loved the outdoors and, while in high school, joined Venture Crew (part of The Boys Scouts of America). He enjoyed hiking, camping, snowboarding, sailing, and kayaking, becoming a skilled outdoorsman. His love and reverence for nature fed his desire to connect with the world around him. Matthew became an avid scholar of spirituality, studying and practicing diverse religious traditions, in pursuit of a deeper understanding of life.
Matthew’s bright spirit, compassion, intelligence, curiosity, and humor drew many people to him. He gathered an incredible group of loyal and devoted friends over his lifetime. We are blessed to have both loved him and been loved by him in his brief 33 years. He will be missed immensely.
Matthew is survived by his mother Joanna Driggers and her partner, Patrick Gaughan, his father J Havner and his wife, Michelle Collyer, his siblings Megan Havner, Chloe Collyer, and Jos Gaughan, his grandparents D. Neil and Judy Ann Driggers, his grandparents Roger and Arvada Scott, and his loving extended family.
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What an absolutely beautiful young man. My heart breaks for you all.
I loved Matt his entire life and I will miss him for the rest of my entire life.
Love you Matt!
G-pa
You will always be in our hearts, Matthew, never far away, forever loved!
Such a beautiful boy and young man. Our heart aches and it will always hold a special place for Matt and all his family.
Mathew leaves a hole in our hearts and we are saddened that we won’t be able to talk with him again.
We have lost a wonderful grandson. He gave us many happy memories. We love you forever Matt. Gramma Arvada and Grampa Roger
Mathew I will miss you in this life. You always made my heart smile. You were funny smart and a bright light whenever I was around you.
You are beautiful
I can’t stop thinking about Matt since hearing about his passing. I will always cherish the memories of coaching him in micro soccer and the times I had the chance to substitute teach him at Whitman MS. He was such a smart and kind person, and I was always proud to tell people he was my cousin. Matt will be deeply missed and forever remembered with love.
Wishing love and peace for Matt and deepest sympathies to all those who loved him.