Joan Margaret Starling
Joan Margaret Starling (maiden name Joan Margaret Hazell), a longstanding resident of the Redmond area, passed away at her home on March 17th at the age of 86. She is survived by her husband of 60 years, Chris, daughters Janet Villella and Hilary Prentice, and four grandchildren: Henry Thomas, Anna Thomas, Claire Prentice and Sarah Prentice. Joan was loved and admired for her warmth, sense of humor, and unwavering commitment to the education of children and the development of educators.
Born in Whitchurch, Somerset, England in November 1938, Joan experienced the tumult and austerity of wartime and postwar Britain. She received her education at Redland High School and the Bristol College of Commerce, subsequently working in the administration of the University of Bristol and the Bristol Public Health Department.
Joan and Chris relocated to the United States in 1965. After her daughters began attending elementary school, Joan volunteered within the Lake Washington School District and decided to pursue further education to become a teacher. Having earned Montessori teaching credentials from Saint Nicholas College London, she established the Sammamish Montessori School adjacent to her home in 1977, starting with an initial class of 12 students. Her husband, Chris, contributed by crafting custom furniture and fixtures for the school and later joined her efforts after his retirement from Boeing. Joan’s daughters also joined the school, and together the family expanded the school to serve over 300 students annually, making it one of the largest and longest-operating authentic Montessori schools in the Pacific Northwest. Over the family’s 45-years of ownership, the school positively impacted more than 10,000 students and hundreds of educators in the Redmond area creating a Legacy in the Montessori community. The family sold the school to new owners January 2023.
Joan had a passion for travel, cooking, and was an accomplished and prolific oil painter. The family is hosting a Celebration of Life in honor of Joan’s life and legacy on June 7, 2025 and is sending invitations via Evite. If you would like to attend and did not receive an invitation, please reach out to Joan’s daughters Hilary Prentice h_prentice@hotmail.com or Janet Villella janetvillella@gmail.com.
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Joan was a Montessori legend and a caring headmistress. She will be missed.
Joan was my best friend and surrogate sister. We worked together in the Health Department in Bristol after leaving school, and I am devastated by her loss. After emigrating to Canada, my late husband and I were blessed to be able to spend many years visiting and holidaying with Chris and Joan, and the families were often together. Joan was a kind, generous and talented friend and will be missed so much.
With love to Chris and the families
Sylvia
I’ve only met with Joan a handful of times, but each meeting left me impressed by her charm and kindness. It’s nice to see that Hilary and Janet have taken on those same wonderful traits, continuing Joan’s legacy.
My sincere condolences to your family.
Diana
Joan was an absolute delight! She was a wonderful client of mine whom extended great trust in my pampering of her! We shared many stories and lots of laughs. To be in her company was pure magic! Joan, you were a beautiful lady, inside and out, and will be missed by so many!
My sincere condolences to the family,
Sakura