Dumisani Brandon Findlay Longwe
Dumisani Longwe
Dumisani “Dumi” Brandon Findlay Longwe, 29 of Seattle WA passed away Saturday January 7th, 2023. Dumisani was born in Malawi on November 17th, 1993. During the early years of his life, Dumisani lived with his beloved maternal grandparents where he was famously known as “grandpa walking stick” as he was always by his side. Dumisani moved to the USA with his mother when he was 10 years old and grew up in Columbus Ohio and Bellevue Washington. He graduated from Interlake High school, class of 2012.
Dumisani had a heart of gold and was always the caring big brother to his cousins. He was kind, gentle and had an infectious smile which anyone who knew him would testify. Dumisani loved art, swimming and travelling while spending his days outdoors.
For a few years, Dumisani fought on and off the battle with mental health and substance abuse. Dumisani tried his best to take the steps to change the course of his life through several mental health and substance abuse rehabilitation treatments. But ultimately, the devil schemes and outsmarts even the most creative and savvy individuals and he did to our Dumisani. On January 7th, 2023, Dumisani accidentally overdosed on Fentanyl.
This opioid epidemic that took our Dumisani’s young precious life is increasing at an alarming rate. And if by sharing Dumisani’s story and struggles another young person’s life is saved, Dumisani’s death will not be in vain.
As a family we are devastated, in pain, shocked and numb but we would like to share our story so that not another family should ever go through what we have. To honor Dumisani’s legacy, let us spread the awareness and truth about this opioid pandemic that is killing our loved ones.
Dumisani is survived by his beloved mother Wezi Longwe, stepdad Reginald Lingard, his beloved maternal aunties, Chimwemwe (Oscar) Mablekisi, Nyembezi (Felix) Ochiabuto, Faith (Charles) Simango, and Linda Longwe; his maternal uncle Herbert (Thandeka) Longwe, maternal cousins Bhekinkosi and Vusi Simango, Chinasa, Chidi and Mayibase Ochiabuto, Lucy, Thembi and Thumbiko Mablekisi, Themba, Unandi and Jikama Longwe. Dumisani is also survived by his paternal uncles Adrian and Graham Findlay, his half-brother Christopher (CJ) Findlay, paternal cousins Corey, Lorna, Rihanna, Jordan, Alistair and Owen Findlay, numerous aunties, uncles, cousins, and friends. The late Dumisani is preceded in death by his father Christopher “Topher” Findlay and his maternal and paternal grandparents.
A funeral service will be held at Kirkland Seventh-day Adventist church, 6400 108th Ave NE, Kirkland WA on January 29th, 2023, from 2-4pm, refreshments will follow. Dumisani’s body will then be repatriated to Malawi, the home where always had a special place in his heart and where his burial will take place.
Condolence contributions can be sent through Zelle: Faith Simango (425)260-8504 OR Venmo: @ Faith-Simango OR Cashapp $FaithSimango
Psalm 4:8 “I will both lay me down in peace, and sleep: for thou Lord, only makest me dwell in safety”
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My beautiful boy! November 17th 1993 0745, the day I understood the meaning of love. January 8th 2023 1405, the day I understood the meaning of pain. Rest in peace my son until we meet again!
Dearest Dumi, you were indeed grandpa’s walking stick; loved so much by your grandparents and all of us from birth. You were such a beautiful baby boy! You were precious. Your life was precious. I pray for God’s comfort for your mom, my dearest childhood friend Wezi; for God’s peace that passes all understanding. May you rest in God’s glory along with Uncle and Auntie Longwe who loved you so so much….
Dumisani my beloved nephew
I loved you the 1st day I found out that your mother was expecting you. Dumi you have left with so much pain and we are really devastated. I am tempted to ask God why our prayers weren’t answered when we prayed for His intervention but will not do that. God has a reason for everything and as His words say. We will give thanks for giving you to us as a son and thank him again for taking you away from us.
Dumi, am hurt!
Sleep well my son, my nephew Dumi as you always call me Aunt Faith.
Dumisani Brandon, It is with saddened hearts that I am hearing you are gone. You have left a gap in your mother’s heart which will not be filled by man but only God Our Father in heaven.
Wezzie May you find comfort in God’s Word.
May Brandon’s soul rest in peace.
Dumisani Brandon, my heart is full of sorrow to hear that you are gone. You were much loved by all of us. We will miss you so dearly and may your soul rest in peace.
With love auntie Catherine.
Dumi…we know that God has a reason for every breathe and so is death.
May you rest in eternal peace. God comfort Wezi and may you surround her with your loving arms. Sending hugs to you Wezi and entire family.
This news is so heartbreaking, Wezi sorry about the loss of our dear son. Please find comfort in God. We know its not an easy thing but put your trust in God, He will heal the brocken heart. We are with you and the whole family in this trying time. MHSRIP
May the Lord comfort you all. He will never leave nor forsake his own. Deepest condolences
Dumi (as your mom introduced you to us)
You are gone but you will be forever present in the hearts of many.
When I heard that Wezi’s son is no more, my mind refused to think its you.
The pain and troubles are over.
Rest in peace Dumi.
Dumi mau ndilibe. The pain is so unbearable. With the little strength I have left I’ll just say “Farewell my son, till me meet again in God’s glory.
Wezi & family, words cannot bring much comfort but allow you to know that you are not suffering alone. God is the one who can comfort & ease your pain but we thank him for giving us the time that Dumi spent on earth. Though we didn’t spend much time or keep in touch as frequently, you were always in my heart for your resemblance to your dad kept a piece of him alive. May you find joy and peace being with your dad & grandparents in heaven.
May Dumi’s sad passing serve help someone else dealing with mental health or substance abuse issues know that they’re not alone and to seek help.
Dumi, I still can believe you are gone and I won’t see your infectious smile again. It hurts Dumi. I prayed so hard for you and I had hope. I believe God had his own plan. Sleep well my Nephew. I’m happy that you knew that i loved you and could do anything to make your life better. I know you are at a better place now. Till we meet again
Wezi I recall the day I meet him for the Christmas party in Seattle did not care about anything I was just happy to be around him. Stay strong.
My brother , you leave us in pain but in memory that will never be forgotten. You helped raise Bhek and I in ways that we will never get to thank or repay you for but that does not change the gratitude that is there for you. Without you , I truly don’t know the man I would be, to say you are gone is heartbreaking , but the impact you left is infinite. You spread so much joy and put so much structure in my brother and I that was very much needed. I’ll always remember how much you loved the tropical islands of Hawaii , you are gone in flesh, but always with us in spirit through every step our family takes . With love, rest easy Dumisani, you truly deserve Gods grace more than anyone I know
Dumi, gone too soon. Nyifwa ya mwana mudoko hurts like a spear has just flew through the heart, and shredded it into a million tiny pieces.
Till we meet, on that beautiful morning.
Will think of you always Dumi. Farewell my boy. You will never be forgotten. Forever Mbuliman in our hearts 💕
Losing a leader of a clan at an early age is truly painful! My condolences Wezzie & Reginald, bena Longwe mose! May the good Lord console and strengthen you all!
Wezi and family, no words from us can meaningfully comfort you at this time. We share in your sorrow. May Almighty God deeply comfort you and allow Dumisani’s soul to rest in eternal peace. May you find solace in Romans 14:8
Dumisan…why gone so soon Son.It pains me a lot to hear that you have gone for good LOVE❤️.Auntie Wezzie plus the whole family will miss you a lot till we meet again in God’s Kingdom. Sleep well Dumisan
Dumisani why so early? A hard pill to swallow Only God has the answers. May your beautiful soul rest in peace. Sissy Wezzie be comforted in Jesus name. Tafwaaa mweee.
To Wezi Longwe and family: pepani kwambiri. I pray for comfort from God’s throne. Thank you for bravely sharing Dumisani’s story. His death shall truly not be in vain. As a mother who also buried an adult child I urge us to be faithful so that in heaven we can look Jesus in the face and get the answer to the question we ask “Why?”. Mwafwa, tafwa!
May The Almighty God be with you and comfort the family during this trying time.
To Wezi and the Longwes, we mourn with you, your loss is our loss. Though we might not understand why Dumi was taken us so early, we trust that the Lord has called him back for a bigger purpose. May the journey back home be smooth and peaceful. Ambuye akufungatileni
My sincere and heartfelt condolences to your family Dumi. I never had a chance to meet your beautiful soul but I knew you through your aunt and felt all their love.
I know you are now at peace and in the arms of your grand parents and Dad
You will forever be cherished and loved
Rest in paradise young King ❤️
Dumisani gone too soon. May your beautiful soul rest in peace. My heartfelt condolences to Wezi and the Longwe family. I pray that you all are surrounded by God’s comforting love.
It is so sad and heartbreaking to see such a young and energetic soul gone too soon. My heartfelt Condolences. Rest well brother.
It’s to hard to say may your soul rest in peace Dumi, I’m still speechless since the day i got this sad message ,the only thing i can say God gives and God takes, may your soul rest in peace Dumi
Dumi, you have gone too soon. You will never be forgotten. You could not say goodbye: so sad!!! Rest In Peace until that day. We have been robbed of a young life 🙏🙏😰
We are sorry for the loss of Dumi. The pain of loosing a child is unbearable and we pray that our heavenly father gives strength to the entire family. Rest in power Dumi.
I am still struggling to believe that you are gone Dumi. My best friend Faith loved you so much, always talked about you with so much pride and so you were special to me.
My thoughts and prayers are with you Wezi, Faith and the whole family. May the Good Lord embrace you in His loving arms and comfort you.
Too sad to learn about your demise Dumi. We shared a birthday..I’m speechless. May God comfort you alamu Wezzie and family. Till we meet on that bright morning. Ret well Dumi.
Dumi as we used to call you, Fare thee well young man, My condolences to Wezzie,Faith, Linda Nyembezi, Bheki, Vusi and the entire Longwe family,May God be with you all during this difficult time, May Dumis soul Rest In Peace till we meet again 🙏
Dumi, your sudden death has broken many people’s hearts. We give thanks to the Lord for the wonderful 29 years. Continue resting in peace Dumi. You were dearly loved and will be dearly missed…..
Rest in peace Dumi! I still remember your beautiful smile when we used to visit Uncle H in old Naisi Zomba. I am sorry you had to be taken with this vicious disease that is claiming so many young lives. Rest in glory. Till we meet again!
May God bless Dumi’s soul and may His love shine down on the family as we all mourn this tragedy. Dumi will live on in our hearts and memories and will always be cherished. Rest in Peace, Dumi.
My condolences to you Wezi and the whole family. May God comfort you and strengthen you. Pepani kwambiri. Sleep well Dumi till that bright morning when the roll is called up yonder.
Dumi,you have have departed from us too soon. You will always be in our hearts. Wezi and The Longwe family, phepani phepani. May God and The Holy Spirit comfort and strengthen the family.
Condolences to you Wezzie and the entire family on the loss of Dumi your beloved son. It pains and it hurts Wezzie but may the Lord God hold your hand and help you to stand and walk again.
The Dlamini family would like to send their sincere condolences to the Longwe and Findlay families during this sad time of loosing a son and nephew🙏. Aunty Wezi may you find comfort in God during this time as your pillar of strength. We love you and you have our deepest sympathy and unwavering support. Wishing you peace, comfort, courage and lots of love at this time of sorrow.
JOHN 14:27🙏
*From The Dlamini Family, Eswatini 🙏🙏🕊️🕊️* 🕊️*
So sorry for your loss.
May you find comfort and strength in the Lord during this difficult time.
Aneba? We mourn and grieve with you and your family. This cannot be easy at all.
We pray you will find comfort standing with our Lord Jesus. Words fail us.
Big hugs Wezi, big hugs..
🙏🙏🥲🥲💐💐💐
Growing up mum would always tell me how we would play together all four of us with Lucy, Thembi and I. I always looked forward to the day we would met again and I still do I’m just heartbroken it won’t be here. Rest in peace my brother.
My condolences to Wezzie and the entire family. May Jesus comfort you all. May He give you peace that surpasses all understanding. May He carry you thru this hardest time of your life.
Wishing you comfort and peace during this difficult time Wezzie and your family. May Dumi’s soul rest in peace.
My God comfort and strengthen you Wezi and the entire family as you mourn the loss of your lovely son. Only God knows why this blossoming flower had lose its beauty so soon. May Dumi rest in peace.
Dumisani we all grieve for you. Wezi, you went above and beyond for your handsome boy yo get help but addiction is not a joke. God knows all the prayers that we sent for intervention, and how the family rallied together, but He chose for Dumi to rest from this world. May God’s grace continue covering you and the whole Longwe clan and extended families. Remember tears are a language God understands. We will continue praying because that’s all we have and know to do until all the storms of this world pass and God takes us home. Mwafwa tafwa. Phepani chomene.
It’s difficult to come up with the right words at a time like this. My prayer is that you would find peace, comfort, and all the support you need in the days to come. “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” May Dumisani’s Soul Rest in peace!
We shall rise in the resurrection morning. You will be missed. Rest in peace Dumisani.
Alamu, so sorry for the loss of our dear Dumisani. Only God knows the reason this had to happen. And God shall wipe away all tears. May He give you peace that passes all understanding. We are praying for the entire Longwe clan. Remain in Him.
A big blow it is but we shall continue to celebrate his life. Rest in peace Dumi.